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Personalized Organizing

12/11/2018

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This weekend, I was at my last vendor event with Clever Container, and as unsuspecting shoppers walked by, I would ask, “would you like to get more organized?” Several people replied, “If I got organized, I would never find anything!” The first couple of times, I chuckled assuming they just said the first thing that came to mind to shut me up so they could pass by my booth without feeling guilty for not stopping to browse. But when I heard the same statement for the third, fourth, and fifth time, I started thinking that maybe there is a widespread misunderstanding about what organization really is or what it should be.

The Clever Container slogan (and a big reason I began selling their products) is “Make Room for Life.” This is the spirit of what being organized is to me. On my website’s homepage it says,
"Getting a life in order is so much more than store-bought organizing containers, a white board calendar, and cute office supplies -- it's about a realistic system that honors your priorities"
So the idea that getting organized would actually make life harder or less efficient is really a foreign concept to me.  I wonder if those who made that comment are thinking of getting organized as a cookie cutter solution that someone else told them was the “right way.”  To those of you who have avoided changing how you do things, where you put things, or how you think about your things, I want you to have hope that there are ways to change that will actually improve your life - in the way that you want to live it.  We all need a personalized approach to organizing, and here’s how to get started:
How You Do Things
Ask yourself these questions:
  1. ​What activities do you do or want to do in your space?
  2. What items do you need for those activities and where are they?
  3. What is in your space that you don’t need for those activities?

A real life example:
My oldest son's bedroom is...well, let’s call it an organizational challenge.  A few months ago, it got especially bad, so I sat in his room with him and told him he was my organizing client, so I asked him the three questions above.  He loves to read, so we decided a reading nook made sense for him. Obviously he needed books, and he also wanted a lamp, some pillows and blankets. The answer to what was in his space that he DIDN’T need was the key to him really buying into getting it organized.  He had a large bookshelf, but it was full of board games. It bothered him that others came into his room all the time to get a game, so we were able to do some shelf shuffling and relocate all the board games to a more central location and fill his bookshelf with books.  We were able to bring in most of the other items he needed for his reading nook - a bin that fit in the bottom of the bookshelf and some pillows and blankets - from other areas in the house. We bought an inexpensive clip-on lamp to complete his nook! Now this is his favorite area in his room, and though it’s not perfectly clean all the time, it has vastly improved since we defined the space, got rid of what didn’t belong, and put everything he needed in a central location.
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Where You Put Things
​Ask yourself these questions:
  1. Are items in your space located in a logical area?  
  2. Are items in your space accessible?
  3. Are items in your space pleasing to the eye?

A real life example:
In my video series, 7 Days to an Orderly Kitchen, I talked about organizing in zones.  I have a baking zone with one cabinet that houses baking ingredients and  measuring cups and spoons. In the cabinet directly beneath, I have a plastic bin with a lid containing all my cake and cookie decorating supplies - sprinkles, cookie cutters, piping bags, etc.  The counter top between those two cabinets has an outlet where I can plug in a mixer and has space for mixing bowls. I created this zone in a logical area near the oven. I made it accessible by making sure I could reach everything easily. Using a bin that I could just put up on the counter instead of having to get on my hands and knees to look through a shelf in a lower cabinet was a great improvement!  Finally I made it pleasing to the eye with matching, labeled canisters for my flours and sugars.

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How You Think About Things
Ask yourself these questions:
  1. Are you overwhelmed or do you feel anxious in your space?  Why?
  2. Do you have too much and feel wasteful or overwhelmed because you can’t use it all?
  3. Do you have too little and feel frustrated by not having what you need?
  4. Do you often become worried or angry because you lose things?

A real life example:
My youngest son is fortunate to be near the bottom of a great hand-me-down chain, so he has a LOT of clothes.  It is overwhelming sometimes with how many little shirts and pairs of pants I’m trying to stuff into his dresser drawers.  When there is too much, he finds it difficult to put things away and we end up with half open drawers overflowing with unfolded clothes.  I get mad because of the mess, but feel guilty if I don’t use all the clothes we have been given. Then we both get frustrated when we can’t find that one shirt that he actually does like because it’s smashed among all of the other shirts that he finds just so-so.  I had to learn that less is definitely more in this situation! Now we go through every piece of clothing to decide if it fits AND if he likes it. If the answer is no to either of those questions, the item gets donated or trashed.  As you can read in a previous post, The Seasonal Switch, we only store one season of clothes in all of our rooms (partly due to the lack of closet space in our 100+ year old house). When you store things out of sight for months at a time, when you get them out, they feel novel and fresh again!  I also do this with stuffed animals and rotate occasionally. There are a few instances were we don’t have ENOUGH of something, and I finally realized that it was worth the extra few bucks to buy another package of underwear to stop the frantic morning rush to find a clean pair!
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I hope this personalized approach will prevent you from scoffing at the idea of getting organized.  Or maybe you now realize that you are pretty organized, it's just not what you thought of as the "regular" way of being organized.  If you can find things, don't feel overwhelmed by your stuff, aren't frustrated or angry because you lose things or forget to complete tasks - you're already in really good shape!  If you've still got a ways to go, that's ok, take this approach to get organized space by space.
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