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A Small Part of Something Big

5/15/2019

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Last week I was in Las Vegas at a huge conference for my job in IT.  As I sat way up in the nosebleeds in the arena needed to hold the 6,000+ people in attendance, I felt more than a little insignificant.  I looked around and saw so many people that seemed to have more knowledge and experience than me, and though that could be a good thing - an opportunity to learn - it was also overwhelming! 
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Where do I start? There is so much, so many choices bombarding me everyday.  I struggle with choosing an area to focus on and get better at, because I feel like if I do, I will neglect everything else - and what if there was a better choice and one that would have been more important or had more impact?  Nearing 40, I'm starting to feel like my potential is fading.  I used to be the youngest in the room, and many times the only woman.  That was my identity - the young, promising woman poised for success, but now I ask myself, "Where did my potential go?  What has been my contribution, and did anyone notice?"

​Now, when I hear a motivational speaker, I get all fired up...for a minute.  When I was younger and less experienced, I was more easily inspired, but the older I get, my level of cynicism grows as my level of inspiration wanes.  I'm now more grounded and practical and want to see my actions and contributions matter.  I find myself asking if I should just try to blend in, and I now realize that it's because I'm afraid I won't stand out.
"I find myself asking if I should just try to blend in, and I now realize that it's because I'm afraid I won't stand out."

Last week, I realized it was time to embrace that being a small part of something big is enough.  As I pondered what this meant in my real life here's what I came up with:
  • Passion matters more than being seen
If I'm passionate about the small part I'm best at, I can make a significant contribution to the whole, even if that's not the part others will see or remember.  I don't need recognition, just the knowledge that I did my best in an area that I really cared about.
  • I can't know it all, and no one else can either
I hope I'm not alone in feeling like everyone else must know more than I do.  In fact, I surmise, that I know a similar amount to others, but we just know and excel at different things.  
  • What if's about the past don't help, but what if's about the future empower
When I ask myself over and over what if I would have done this or that in the past, my focus is compromised, but when I ask what if I do this or that in the future, I can decide what my focus should be going forward.
  • I can create momentum through focus
That word, focus, is one that I want more of!  I've often felt like a "jack of all trades, master of none."  Choosing a small amount of things to focus on would help propel me forward.
  • Feeling overwhelmed doesn't diminish your worth
We all have a purpose and value.  (Say that  to yourself a few times!)  
  • I don't have to be a leader all the time
"You're a natural born leader," they say.  What I want them to say is, "It's ok to follow sometimes."

​What about you?  Do you feel like you have to be on top to matter or have you already mastered the art of teamwork and honing your specific skills so that you can compliment others with a common, big-picture goal?  I'd love to hear from you.  Comment below or email info@mylifeinorder.com.



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