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Easy Bullet Journaling That Really Works!

8/2/2021

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If you have even the tiniest productive bone in your body, you're probably interested in how to keep better track of all of your to do's.  I've tried many tools over the years from digital apps to cute to do lists to a digital/analog combo, and what I've realized is that, for me, simple is best!  That's why I use a bullet journal which combines my love of office supplies, my desire to be a little artistic, and my need to feel in control!  

You may have read about bullet journaling or watched videos of some really elaborate ways to use a bullet journal and gotten scared because it looked too hard.  I'm here to tell you that you don't have to be an artist or a productivity genius to make a bullet journal work for you.

What is a Bullet Journal?
The Bullet Journal method was designed by Ryder Carroll, a former web, app, and game designer with ADD who needed a way to stay organized.  He knew that study after study had shown that writing things down by hand cemented them in our memories and provided a sense of order, so he developed a way to quickly log notes, to do's, ideas, and appointments quickly and easily in a bulleted list.  In addition to capturing your thoughts and tasks, you can create all sorts of collections of related information from a food log to vacation planning.  The heart of the bullet journal is reviewing your information regularly and migrating incomplete but still relevant tasks so that they stay top of mind.

What Supplies are Needed?
One of the great things about bullet journaling is that you only really have to have two things to get started: a journal of some sort and a writing utensil.  Other optional supplies are additional writing utensils in multiple colors, a ruler, stencils or stickers.  

With the amount of options available for journals,  it can get a little confusing, so let me break it down for you.   The features to consider are size, cover and binding type, paper weight, paper design, book marks, closures, and pockets. Your first decision is how big do you want your journal? There are codes that indicate the size.  Common sizes are labelled A5, A6, B5, and B6 that correspond to measurements.
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Covers are really a preference - do you like a hard cover or a soft cover and what material?  Some come with designs or quotes on the front while others are just a plain color.  There are four main types of bindings: spiral bound, saddle stitch binding, perfect binding, and case binding.  Spiral bindings can have plastic or metal coils threaded through holes in the pages.  Saddle stitch binding is the technique when all pages are printed and then folded in half and secured with staples. Perfect binding uses a soft cover and pages are glued to the cover.  Case binding is also called hardcover binding.  Pages are stitched together in sections, and the sections are glued to the cover.  This type of binding allows the book to lay flat on every page. 

Paper weight is another important feature to consider so the ink you use doesn't bleed through.  Paper weights are measured in pounds (how much a ream of 500 sheets of paper weighs) or GSM (grams per square meter.)  The higher the number, the thicker the paper.  The conversion between pounds and GSM is 1 pound = 1.48 gsm.  For example regular printer paper is around 20 lbs  or around 30 gsm, and cardstock is around 65 lb or 96 gsm.  In addition to weight, paper can be lined, have grid dots, or be blank.

Some journals have other great features like built in bookmarks (sometimes up to 3), pockets for storing loose paper, elastic or magnetic closures, pen holders, and even included rulers or stencils.  

I've tried several journals over the years of different styles and now have a list of must have features in a journal.  I want my journal to lay flat when it's open, have prenumbered pages, have an elastic closure, a pen holder, and multiple built in ribbon book marks.  This year's journal had two new features that I think will make my list - grid dots instead of lines on the pages and a pocket for a small ruler with stencils!  ​​

Writing utensils can be pens, markers, pencils, colored pencils or a combination.  I prefer pens or markers and enjoy using multiple colors to create visual separation and include some artistic flair!  It's important to have paper thick enough to prevent bleeding.  My current journal has paper that is 160 gsm.  There are many utensils that are bleed-proof.  My favorite are Sharpie felt tip fine point pens that come in assorted colors.  Or if you prefer a gel pen, one of my favorites is the Sharpie S-Gel fine point.

What's the BuJo Lingo?
Whenever you try something new, the lingo can be intimidating.  Here are what the basic words related to bullet journaling mean:
  • BuJo - Short for Bullet (Bu) Journaling (Jo) by putting the first two letters of each word together.
  • Rapid Logging - using a bulleted list to quickly log to do's, notes, and events.
  • Resource Page - a page where you list the symbols you will use, dimensions of your pages, etc. 
  • Index - a page or pages at the front of your bullet journal where page numbers of sections are recorded to help you quickly locate content.
  • Spread - a set of facing pages that contain similar information
  • Future Log - a  module where you can record dated events outside of the current month. 
  • Monthly Log - a module to help you plan the current month. Usually a spread with a calendar on the left page and a task list on the right page.
  • Daily Log - pages where rapid logging is used from day to day.  
  • Collection - a module that organizes related information
  • Migration - the process of moving incomplete tasks to a new monthly log or the future log
  • Bullets and signifiers - symbols used to indicate if an item is a task, an event,or a note and additional symbols to indicate the status or importance.  Below are the ones I use, but the beauty is, you can make up whatever you want!  TIP: Write the initials of the person you delegated a task to next to the delegated symbol for future clarity.
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How to Get Started
Once you have selected your journal and writing utensils, you can quickly get started!  Make sure your pages are numbered, or add in page numbers yourself before you begin.
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  • Create a Resource Page
If you're not a BuJo expert, it may be helpful to have a resource page to remind you of the symbols you want to use in your rapid logging, or the measurements of spreads you want to be able to easily recreate.  I also like to show a sample of each of my pen colors.  TIP: If you use paper with grid dots, it's helpful to write down how many dots there are vertically and horizontally.  
  • Create an Index
Simply write the title of any collection you create and the page number on which it begins.  One reason I love bullet journaling is because you don't have to have everything planned out in advance, you just log it as you go.  For instance, my January 2021 entry in my index shows pages 6-11,16-19 because I created additional collections in the middle of January.  
  • Create a Future Log 
I like to start a new journal each January, so my future log is for the upcoming year.  I use two spreads and split the pages into three sections each so that one quarter fits on each page.  This is where you can record important dates or tasks that should be done in a specific future month.  Make sure to note the page number of your future log in the index. Here's an example of a blank future log.
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  •  Create a Monthly Log for the current month 
There are infinite ways to design a monthly log, and some of them get really complicated if you want to get lost on YouTube.  I prefer easy and straightforward!  I like the left page to be a simple calendar.  It can be done with a traditional calendar grid or just simple numbers down the side of the page.  The right side page of the spread should contain tasks.  I prefer to split the page in half to be able to fit more tasks.  You should migrate any tasks from the previous month that still need completed, and add in any new tasks for the month.  As you complete them, delegate them, cancel them, migrate them, or move them to the future log, mark them with the appropriate symbol.  Don't forget to note the page number of your monthly log in your index.  Below is an example Monthly Log spread.  I include both work and personal items in my bullet journal.
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  • Start a Daily Log
​This is the best part of bullet journaling!  On the page directly after your monthly log, write the date of the first day of the month.  I like to write it in a different color and underline it so it stands out.  Then just start logging.  I often make a list of my top few things to accomplish for the day as soon as I begin the day's log.  Throughout your day, log what happens, and use your symbols to indicate if it's a note, a task or an event.    When the next day begins, just skip a little space, and write the new date, and repeat.  You don't have to start and end perfectly at the end of a page, just keep going until you have logged everything you need to.  When you finish a month of logging, you will just go back to your index and indicate the page numbers that information from the month is included on.  Example: July 2021 106-118.
  • Add Collections of your choice 
Here is where you can get creative and customize your bullet journal to whatever you want it to be!  I use mine for both work and personal content.  I have a collection of books I've read this year where I log the book, the author and the date I finished it.  I've also got a food diary, and a collection called, "Small Changes, Big Results" where I keep track of habits.  I have a couple of pages where I played tic-tac-toe and another page where I recorded all the license plates we saw on vacation.  It's completely customizable!  Add the collection name and page number to your index, so you can find them again when you want to.

How to Maintain Your Bullet Journal
The bullet journal is only as good as what you put in it, and just like any productivity system, it requires regular maintenance.  There are only three main things to remember:

1. Use it!
At first, it may be hard to remember to have your journal with you at all times.  I work in an office setting, so I keep my journal on my desk for easy access.  I take it with me to meetings, and though sometimes I may take notes digitally I always transfer any to do's to my bullet journal so I have a master list of to do's with me at all times.  

2. Update
 I often take my journal to my bedroom in the evening to review the day and mark off things I've completed or delegated, and get a jump start on tomorrow.   Even if you don't do this daily, it's critical to do at least weekly.  Some people do a weekly spread to force themselves to do this review.  I did a weekly spread for the first few months, but found that reviewing daily worked better for me.

3. Migrate
Migration is the thread that holds the bullet journal system together.  You could do this weekly if you choose to do a weekly spread or monthly if that's enough for you.  Use the symbol that you decided on (most common is  >) to indicate the task is not complete but it has been moved forward to a new section so that it won't be forgotten.  I also look back at any delegated tasks to determine if they are completed or not. If they are not I will move them forward with the migrated symbol and the initial of the person I delegated it to.  When the migrated task is complete, I will mark it as such.

The Benefits of the BuJo
I like the bullet journal system because it allows me to slow down and write things down legibly so I will be able to read them later!  This sounds silly, but sometimes I feel like I have so much to do that writing something down takes too much time.  Rushing is what leads to forgetting what I need to do and in turn getting overwhelmed.  Writing things down helps my brain process and remember things.

I enjoy the opportunity to be a little artistic in a non-judgement zone!  It's fun to use stencils and sometimes even stickers to decorate my pages.  I enjoy hand lettering, and it's an opportunity to use and improve those skills.  I also love that if I mess up, no one will see it, and I can just start a new page.

The biggest benefit of BuJo, is the sense of control it gives me knowing that all my tasks are captured and won't get forgotten.  I have the ability to look back at the history of my notes and tasks.  With the custom collections, I have the ability to track progress in many different areas of my life all at once.  

So, do you think you're ready to give it a shot?  Please reach out if you have any questions or need some more guidance to get started.  If you want a deeper dive into the philosophy and process of bullet journaling, I recommend Ryder Carroll's book, The Bullet Journal Method

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Carroll, Ryder. “Bullet Journal.” Bullet Journal, 2021, bulletjournal.com/. 

Carrol, Ryder. The Bullet Journal Method: Track the Past, Order the Present, Design the Future. FOURTH ESTATE LTD, 2020. 

“Commercial Printing Company in Florida: Solo Printing.” Commercial Printing Company in Florida | Solo Printing, 8 June 2021, soloprinting.com/. 

“A Comprehensive Guide to Notebook Sizes.” Galen Leather, 2021, www.galenleather.com/blogs/news/notebook-sizes. 

“What Does Gsm Mean When Buying Paper and Card?” Papermill Direct, 20 July 2021, www.papermilldirect.co.uk/inspire/what-does-gsm-mean-when-buying-paper-and-card. 

Philipson, Samantha. “What's in a Bind? 4 Types of Book Binding – Pros and Cons.” Ironmark Blog, 2021, blog.ironmarkusa.com/4-types-book-binding. 

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Home Projects Room by Room

12/28/2020

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Do you have a million ideas swirling around your head at any given time?  Do you tell yourself you'll remember that thing you need to do, but then forget before the day is even over?  Do you see that same little imperfection or incomplete project every time you walk into the room but never seem to find the time to get it taken care of?  If you answered yes to even one of these questions, I'm here with a simple idea to help!

​Track your home projects room by room.  It's so simple it's hard to believe it would work, but just give it a try. 
  • Decide on Paper or Digital
The first step is to determine how you prefer to track your home projects.  If you are a paper person, you can have fun selecting a binder or notebook, dividers, and a nice pen or pencil.  But if you prefer digital, you can use a tool like Evernote to easily get organized with a new digital notebook and notes.  The benefit of a digital version is that it can be accessed on your phone and is more portable.

  • Define your areas
Make a quick list of all the rooms or areas in your home.  Make sure to include garage, barn, deck, yard, basement, etc. Now, create a section in your notebook for each area.  You may want to group some together if it makes sense.  For example, I combined deck and yard into one section.  

If you go the Evernote route like I did, create a notebook titled Home Projects and then create a note for each room/area.  Insert a checklist so that when you are done, you can simply click to check the item off!

  • Do a walk through, and write it all down
With your new notebook, take a walk through your home, and take a good look around each space.  Make a checklist of all the things you want to do in each room's notebook section.   Include little items like "replace the light bulb above the kitchen sink" or "get a new air freshener" to bigger projects like "clean out the refrigerator" or "wash the baseboards."  You can include ideas or daydreams, too, like "get new carpet in the living room" or "rearrange the bedroom furniture."    You should indicate if something is a  "now" project or a "future" project.  If you're using paper, you could highlight or star the future projects.  If you're using digital, you could change the font color or put an * in front of them.

Once you have all of the to do's out of your head and into your notebook, you will waste less of your time trying to remember what you wanted to do and can spend more time getting things done!  (Getting things out of your head is great for more than just home projects - read a Brain Dump How -To for more info!)

  • Start a shopping list/wish list
This is where you are going to record what you need (or want) to purchase.  If it's as easy as a light bulb, you likely aren't going to have to do much research or shopping around, but if it's a new light fixture or paint color, you may want to keep track of some websites, photos, or paint swatches.  This is why I like digital - because it's easy to insert a link or a photo.  I prefer to keep my shopping list in the section for each room, but if you'd rather, you could make one master shopping list.

  • Add to your lists
Now when you are in your bedroom and notice a scuff on the wall that you think would probably come off pretty easily with magic eraser, just add it to your bedroom list!  In the past you would have noticed it and thought to yourself that you should probably write that down somewhere, but when you left the room, you likely forgot and then never got around to it!

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  • Designate a time to work on home projects weekly
The hardest step is making time to actually DO the projects.  As you will notice, many of them are so small they will only take a couple of minutes, so if you find yourself with a few minutes to spare before it's time to go pick up the kids or you have a unexpected burst of energy before bed, you'll be amazed how many little items you can check off in a short time!  To make steady progress on your list - especially if it includes some larger projects - you should set aside time weekly to work on the tasks.   I'm a big fan of timing myself so that I feel that sense of urgency to get things done.  Don't forget to get your family involved, too!

  • Check things off!
​​Make sure to give yourself credit for all that you get done, and check items off of your lists!  At some point you may want to edit your lists to remove some of the completed items.  If you use paper, you can simply rewrite, and if you use digital, you can delete or reorder items on your lists.

This time next week will be a brand new year, so this is a great time to gather up all of the tasks and projects you want to get done around the house so you can be productive in 2021!

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Photo by Roselyn Tirado on Unsplash

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14 One Day Organizing Projects

3/14/2020

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Many around the world are hunkered down at home to help slow the spread of COIVD-19.  I think this is the perfect time to get some projects done at home!  During times of uncertainty, it's easy to become anxious and overwhelmed about the things we can't control.  Small, achievable projects can give us a way to keep our minds off of the sometimes scary reality and also regain some control in our lives.  Many of you may be off work or working from home for the next 14 days, so read on for 14 organizing projects you can get done in one day or less!

1. Switch your wardrobe from Winter to Spring

At least the timing is about right for putting away winter clothes and getting out your Spring/Summer wardrobe.    Make sure to donate winter items you didn't wear this year and try on the Spring/Summer items to make sure they fit.  Don't waste space with things that no longer fit or you no longer love!  For more ideas read, The Seasonal Switch post!

2. Clean out and organize your medicine cabinet

This is a great time to think about what medicines in your cabinet may be out of date and determine which ones you are out of.  Make sure to clean the shelves and any organizing containers thoroughly.   You may be able to use items from around the house to combine like items.  Find some low-cost organizing ideas in the post, 5 Dollar Store Ideas for Your Medicine Cabinet.

3. Organize your junk drawer

Everybody has one and without occasional attention, the junk drawer can get out of control!  You may store some essentials in this drawer like batteries, flashlights, and hand sanitizer, so make sure you add any items you need to replenish to your shopping list.  Read more in 7 Steps to the Junk Drawer of Your Dreams.
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​4. Catch up on paperwork

You probably have a pile of papers to go through "when I have time."  Well, you've got some time now!  Separate into things you will do; things you will defer; things you can shred, recycle or trash; and things to file.  From there it's pretty simple, do the do pile, file the file pile, trash the trash pile, and find a home for what you deferred (though think about just doing everything you possibly can instead of keeping a pile for later!)  If you already have a good system in place, read 6 Steps to Get Caught Up on Paperwork  but if you need some help knowing where to start, check out The First Big Win: Wrangling the Paper or TheBinder System.

5. Purge and organize craft and hobby supplies

We all have a hobby of some sort, and those of us with kids likely have supplies for all sorts of crafts and hobbies!  The first step is to PURGE!  Get input from everyone who has used the supplies in the past about what they'd like to see done with them.  Choices are keep it all, keep some, donate, or trash.  Set up a few boxes - one for keep, one for donate, and one for trash.  Go through everything first and then begin determining where items will go and how you will store them.  I'll be doing a whole post soon on craft/hobby room organization!  In the meantime, you can read Can Creativity Be Orderly.

6. Organize your bedside table

Having a clear surface next to my bed gives me a sense of calm!  It's very easy to let your bedside table get cluttered because you are usually tired when you are near it.  Go through everything in and on the table and relocate anything you don't need within arms' reach at night.  Don't forget to add items that would be handy to have close by like hand lotion, chap stick, pain reliever, headphones, a book, a flashlight, etc.  In my E-book, Get Organized Head First, I share a how to get your entire bedroom cleaned and organized.  Having an orderly bedroom creates a sense of calm and control that translates to other areas in your life.  Get a copy of Get Organized Head First for only $2 when you use code: ORGANIZE at checkout!

7. Organize a closet

Pick a closet, any closet! This could be a coat closet, a linen closet, or your clothes closet.   Use the steps of purge, sort and store.  Purge what you no longer need or want, sort so like items are kept together, and then store in logical and accessible ways.  Read for more ideas in these posts The Seasonal Switch and Personalized Organizing
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​8. Organize sports gear

Spring soccer is just beginning.  Though practice schedules are up in the air for the time being, we will eventually get back to the days of cleats, shin guards, and soccer socks all over the place!  Consider setting up a zone in your home or garage where all the sports equipment and supplies go.  Items that we only use for a couple of months at a time don't tend to have a "home" like items we use all of the time.  This makes it more likely that they get left in a pile or create clutter.  Read How to Create an Organized Sports Zone for more ideas.

9. Clean and organize your laundry room

What a great opportunity to catch up on laundry (see how I'm trying to look on the bright side!)  It feels like laundry never ends, but I'm hopeful with less outings will come less laundry!  Take a day to assess what the problem areas are in your laundry room — it may be the lack of folding space, a cluttered shelf for cleaning supplies, or a hamper that is too small.  Read A Laundry Experiment Part 1 and A Laundry Experiment Part 2 for more ideas!

10. Purge and organize your board games

My family loves games!  We play family games at least a couple of times a week and are planning on a lot more while the kids are off school for the next few weeks.  Some of our favorites are Llama Drama, Exploding Kittens,  One Night Ultimate Werewolf, Unstable Unicorns,Yahtzee, Boggle, Bananagrams, Catch Phrase, and  Hearts.  This is a great time  pull out some games you haven't played in a while to determine if they are keepers or not.  Go through each box and assure you have all the pieces.  Keep all extra or random pieces in a small container so that they are easy to find later.

11. Purge and organize kids' toys

If you have kids who are going to be home from school for a few weeks, you are likely already dreading hearing them whine, "I'm bored!"  Going through their toys is a great way for them to rediscover fun things they may have forgotten about.  Use the same system as you did with the closet — purge, sort, store.  One of my favorite toy organizing projects was in this blog post, Lego Storage Under the Stairs
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​12. Write down your goals and a plan to achieve them

The Coronavirus outbreak has caused many of us to think about what and who is really important to us.   Think of this as an opportunity you've been given to reconsider your priorities and set new boundaries and goals for your life.   I encourage you to physically write down your goals and find someone to share them with so you have the accountability you need to achieve them.  Read about S.M.A.R.T. goals here and get a free, printable goal setting worksheet.  Learn about how to set and achieve a goal in as little as 6 weeks in this free, 10 minute webinar.  And if you are interested in some structured accountability, consider the upcoming Achieve! session - learn more here!

13. Clean out your refrigerator

Being stuck at home will force many of us to get creative about what we cook.  It's a great time to look in the depths of your refrigerator and freezer for food you didn't even know you had!  You may start to realize that maybe if your fridge was a little more organized you would have known what was in there!  Get some quick ideas by reading Organize Your Fridge for Healthy Eating  and if this inspires you to do the WHOLE kitchen - check out the free 7 day video series, 7 Days to an Orderly Kitchen.

14. Purge and organize your cords and chargers

Being stuck at home will likely mean lots of electronics being used over the next couple of weeks. You probably have cords and chargers all over the place.  Gather them all together, and use the same method we've talked about before - purge, sort and store.   There are likely cords and chargers from items you no longer own as well as multiples of the same type.   Don't keep more than you need. Even if you throw or give away several cords and chargers, you will save money in the long run because you won't be buying new ones every time you can't find one — now you'll know right where they are!


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Lessons From a Kitchen Remodel

4/30/2019

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My husband and I have been talking about a kitchen remodel for years, and when the doors to our cabinets literally began to fall off, we knew it was time!  We are still a ways from a final product, but I'm very happy with how the process has gone so far.  I planned more for this project than any other home improvement project, and it's been worth it!  

What I've learned so far:
  • Start WAY in advance
Home improvement projects always take longer than expected, so start much earlier than you think is necessary.   A kitchen may be the most difficult of all remodeling projects and the timelines are longer than I ever would have expected.  5-6 weeks for cabinets to get in and ANOTHER 4-5 weeks for counter tops once cabinets are installed seems extreme, but once you know what to expect, you can begin the planning process.
  • Ask lots of questions
Do your research!  Ask professionals and, more importantly, friends who have been through a similar project.  Ask for your family's input, too.  They will be the ones living with you in the space, so you want to make sure it's functional for them as well.  Things you want to learn about are style, color, materials, functionality, and durability.  
  • Visualize the final product
Look at magazines, watch some home improvement shows, browse home home improvement stores, and of course create some Pinterest boards to help plan out your final design.  When you have a design in your mind, it's easier to make all the choices required for a remodeling project.
  • Make your temporary space work for you
When you are remodeling a section of your home, it's an inconvenience not matter how you slice it.  Take a little extra time to set up the necessities in another area in your home.  Our family has been using our breezeway between the kitchen and garage as our temporary kitchen complete with our fridge, microwave, toaster oven and kitchen table.  Yeah, I washed dishes in my bathroom for a couple of weeks, but other than running water, I had everything I needed!
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  • ​Do first things first
Based on all the questions you asked earlier, you should know the pieces of the project that take the most time.  Make yourself a timeline so you don't have to put your project on hold or have your house torn up longer than necessary.  For example, we took measurements first, then found our installer which allowed us to get his input on materials and be aware of his availability.  Next we ordered cabinets so they would be delivered in the right window of time.  We knew we need to have our cabinets torn out, floor repaired and floor installed first, and we didn't want to have a kitchen's worth of cabinets taking up our garage space for longer than necessary.  
  • Find the right person to do the work
Some of you are able to do home improvement projects on your own...and then there's the rest of us!  Finding someone who does quality work when they say the will do it at a reasonable price is one of the hardest parts of home ownership.  This is why asking around to others who have been through the same type of project you're doing is so valuable! Learn from their experience (and their failures!)  and ask for and take recommendations.  
  • Be willing to wait for quality
Along the way, there are going to be surprises (especially if you live in an old house like mine!)  Try not to get frustrated if your well-laid plans get pushed back.  It's more important that the job get done right than get done fast.  Make sure to plan in some "fluff" time so that you don't end up having the painter scheduled to paint on the same day your counter tops are being installed because the cabinet installation was delayed due to unexpected issues with the floor.  If you build in some buffer days, your project will flow much more smoothly!
  • Don't forget progress pictures!
It's so much fun to see those progress pictures.  It helps you appreciate how far you've come even when the project seems to be going slow.  When I look back at my green linoleum and what was under it, I'm even more grateful for my new, level floor!  We have a few more weeks before we can call the project complete, but we've come a long way!
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Find the Right Person for the Job

7/1/2018

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I like to be self-sufficient, and I enjoy learning new things or figuring out how to accomplish a new task.  There are some types of tasks that I won't even attempt, but for most things, I'll at least do a little Googling or YouTube video watching and give it a go.  Though this "I can do it" attitude may help me become more well-rounded, save a little money, and keep things interesting, it can also severely impact my productivity and can create frustration both for me and my family!  Over time, I've learned that there is real value in finding the right person for the job!

At work and at home, it's impossible for us to do it all, though I'm guilty of trying to do it anyway.  I used have a hard time with the group project concept.  I felt like it would just be easier to do it all myself.  At least that way, I knew it would get done.   Doing it myself meant that I knew the progress of the project and the barriers to getting it completed so I could figure out ways to overcome the barriers and meet the deadline.  This mentality causes stress, burnout, and ultimately leads to lower quality work and delayed results.  Why is it then, that it's so hard to relinquish a little control and trust others to help me? ​
"Though this 'I can do it' attitude may help me become more well-rounded, save a little money, and keep things interesting, it can also severely impact my productivity and can create frustration both for me and my family!"

​A great example of how finding the right person to do the job produced fantastic and quick results was when I wanted to create a logo for my blog.  I had an idea in my head, but I thought it would be too difficult for me to articulate that to someone else, so I tried to do it myself. I tried and tried to bring my vision to life, but without the proper tools or expertise in graphic design, I just couldn't produce something I was happy with.  I considered hiring someone, but I talked myself out of that by rationalizing that I was saving money by doing it myself and I could remain authentic to my own creative plans for my logo.  Well, what happened is that I didn't launch my blog because I didn't have what I felt was the perfect logo, and I became more and more frustrated and wasted a LOT of time. ​
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This is one of my feeble attempts at designing my own logo
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​I finally got over myself and hired someone to design my logo.  But, even then, I tried to maintain control over the process giving her very specific instructions about what I wanted, what colors I liked, etc.  It wasn't until I gave the designer greater creative space that I got exactly what I had been dreaming of!  I finally got down to the core of what I wanted to accomplish - a clean logo in soothing colors that showed you could be creative and have beauty while still being orderly.  The graphic designer quickly created several mock ups for me.  I chose the one I liked best, asked for a couple of tweaks, and tada -I had a beautiful logo that I love as if I created it myself.  I think that I actually love it even more because I 
didn't create it!
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This is the beautiful result of hiring the right person for the job!

​I now am much more inclined to hire work done or ask for help and suggestions.  The old saying, "time is money" is so true.  I could spend ten times as long doing something that would be a lower quality than if I hired the right person for the job.  I could use that time in a different way to produce real results.  I'm a big believer in frugality, so of course I don't hire someone to do everything for me!  I pick and choose what I can afford, what meets the biggest and most urgent need, and what I don't want to or don't have the capacity to learn how to do myself.  There are some things that are just fun to dabble in and the difference in the end result of me doing it versus a professional wouldn't be that noticeable, but then there are all the other things where an expert is definitely the right choice.  

This concept also applies to situations at home or work where we would should delegate a task to someone who is best equipped to do it.  Best equipped can mean they are an expert or they have the capacity to become an expert or simply that they have time to do the task.   When we delegate, though, we have to learn to accept the results may not be exactly as if we had done the task ourselves.  I have my kids do certain chores at home, and maybe the cleaning isn't quite as thorough as I would have done it, but it's done and I was able to complete other tasks instead. 

​I also try to remember that it's all about choice.  By choosing to do something myself (or learn how to do something on my own), I am also choosing not to spend that time on something else.  To get and keep my life in order, I have to learn to choose to spend my time wisely so that there is time for the things I'm good at, time for the things I enjoy doing, time for the things I am required to do, and most importantly, time for the people I love.


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Top 10 Organizing Tips from My Dad

6/17/2018

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In honor of Father's Day, I wanted to share some tips I've learned from my dad over the years.  He's the guy who passed on a love of labeling things to me, and he has so many great ideas for keeping things organized!  

On a serious note, I'm so blessed to be my father's daughter.  He and my mom have been married for 42 years and my dad has been the best example of hard work, good morals, and generosity that I could have asked for.  He was an involved parent attending countless piano recitals and school activities, driving our family on summer road trips, moving me in and out of my college dorm room, walking me down the aisle at my wedding, providing advice on car purchases, and helping with lots of repair projects!  He's now a devoted Grandpa and setting the same examples for his grandchildren.

Top 10 organizing tips from my dad:

1.  Label your board games
You know when you're playing a game that has questions on cards and someone starts suddenly knowing all of the answers and you realize someone put the cards back on the wrong end of the box last time you played.  Well, my dad has a simple fix for that! Simply put a piece of masking tape on whichever end you designate the front.  To make it even clearer, write "FRONT" on it.
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​2.  Keep track of dates of purchase and maintenance on your owner's manuals
For large purchases, most of us keep the owner's manuals.  My dad has always written the date of purchase and noted and maintenance and the date on the cover.  You could also staple the receipt to the manual.  Not only is it interesting to see how long things last (he had the manual from his record player from the 1970-something), but it's helpful when dealing with warranties, or knowing the timing of preventative maintenance.

3. Hang a tennis ball on a rope from your garage ceiling

My dad has a nice garage and he maximizes the space in front of where the cars park with built in cabinets and hooks on the walls.   To keep my mom from pulling the vehicles in too far (and likely also to make sure the vehicles were in far enough not to get caught in the closing garage door), he long ago installed a hanging tennis ball.  You pull the car up until the tennis ball just taps your windshield, so you know you are parked in the perfect spot.

4. Customize your belongings to fit your space

The bathroom I used growing up has an area that juts out just past the tub (which my dad did on purpose when he built the house, of course, for plumbing access.)  The problem is the only rugs that would fit in the space were too small to really do any good.  No problem, Dad to the rescue!  He cut a notch in the rug so it fits perfectly against the wall and a side benefit is that it can't slip around either.  This applies to so many things in my parents' house beside rugs.  My dad coined the phase that my brother and I still jokingly use, "You know what a guy could do..."  Whenever he said this, you knew he had a great idea!
"You know what a guy could do..."

5. Don't let sentiment cause clutter
My dad is somewhat of a minimalist.  He doesn't care for a coffee table in the middle of the room or many knick knacks sitting around.  My dad had a decent sized record collection, some of which he'd had since he was a teenager.  They were stored in a wooden cabinet with sliding doors.  Several years ago, he wanted to use the record cabinet for another storage purpose (in the garage on that wall in front of the vehicles - thank you hanging tennis ball for keeping it safe!)  In order to use it for garage storage,  he got rid of the records. I remember feeling sentimental about him getting rid of them and they weren't even mine.  He didn't let sentiment cause any unnecessary clutter.  I'm grateful that my husband and brother got several of the records for their own collections!

6.  Research and analyze which is cheaper and better - fixing/refurbishing or buying new
This one may only apply if you have the ability to fix things yourself. If you know my dad, you know he can fix just about anything!  There are times that most people would have just gotten a new (insert whatever is broken in your house) but my dad did the research to fix it.  For instance, he put a brand new bottom in the bathtubs instead of replacing them.  It was cheaper and less work in the long run than tearing out the old one and installing a new one.  There are times though, were  you've fixed as much as you can fix, and it's just time to buy new.  

7.  Label generously
My dad has been making labels as long as I can remember!  His go to is masking tape and a sharpie.  Putting labels on things helps to identify them (the reason spices of similar colors are labelled in my mom's spice cabinet) and helps us remember where things go (this is why I label my clear bins in my refrigerator - I certainly don't want my raw meat to ever go in the bin where my yogurt is supposed to go!)  I have to admit, I did think my dad took it a little far when I saw that he had labelled the tape dispenser, "TAPE."
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8.  Take notes and keep things you want to reference later in a central location

My dad takes notes and records things he wants to remember later.  Even if you have a good memory, you can't remember everything!  Dad has his own system for reference in an Excel spreadsheet with many, many tabs, where I use Evernote to keep track of things I want to refer to later.  Your system doesn't have to work for everyone - just for yourself!   

 9.  Do things the right way the first time.
I say this to my kids often, "Do it right the first time."  Often there's a shortcut or an easy way out, and if that can qualify as "the right way," by all means, take that path of least resistance.  But too often, the easy way is not the right way, and then you end up having to redo the task or fix a mistake later on.  Sometimes tasks take my dad longer than I would expect, but it's done right and it lasts!  Several years ago, I had some issues with the caulk around my bathroom tub and my dad fixed it for us (yep, I'm lucky, I know!) It took a lot longer than I anticipated, but because he used the right materials,  fixed his mistakes while the caulk was still wet, smoothed it with the correct tool, and waited the appropriate amount of time for it to dry - it looked great, served its correct purpose, and has lasted a long time.

10.  Use your talents to help others
As I said earlier, my dad can fix just about anything and everybody knows it!  This was demonstrated yesterday when my almost-4-year-old nephew picked up a toy that wouldn't work and bypassed everyone to go straight to my dad and say, "Grandpa this is broken, will you fix it?"  Being good at something does usually mean you get asked to help people do that thing, and sometimes that can feel like a burden. Though I can't read his mind, it doesn't seem like he minds when he's asked to help with someone else's project.  I think he looks at it as an opportunity to solve a puzzle while helping someone out.  He's certainly helped me out more than I could ever thank or repay him for.   I think because I saw my dad using what he was good at to help his family and others since I was a little girl, it seems natural to me to share my talents, too.  I also think that we improve our skills, become faster and more productive at things when we do them more often - practice makes perfect, right?  If we can improve our skills and become more efficient at them while helping someone out, it's a win-win!

My dad has taught me much more than these 10 things (some of them I've written about before) but these are some that I thought you might like to try out.  I'm so fortunate to have a dad who has been present my entire life, and it was really fun to think of some of the things he's taught me.  I challenge you to make a list of some specific things someone important in your life has taught you - and share it with them!  Happy Father's Day, Dad - I love you!
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Lego Storage Under the Stairs

5/28/2018

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Let me set the scene...half-built Lego creations on the basement floor with all of the remaining pieces strewn about. The remnants of well-intended organization cluttering the dedicated Lego space, while rogue pieces invade nearly every square inch of the thoroughfare of the basement. Unopened Lego sets stacked in the corner, never getting played with because the unfinished basement is such an undesirable destination. 

It was time - it was time to create a Lego storage system in an area of the house that the kids actually wanted to use! But how? and where? Here is the process I used to get creative about how to use a small space to meet a storage and organization need.  
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BEFORE
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AFTER

​1. Determine the location


I surveyed the options for Lego storage in my house - they were limited! Since both of my kids like Legos and often share pieces, it made sense to store them in a shared location rather than in one of kids' bedrooms. We don't have a spare bedroom or a rec room, so I was having trouble wrapping my mind around where I could possibly store these Legos! I had to stop looking at my house as it was and start thinking what it could be. I landed on two possibilities: the breezeway between our garage and kitchen (which was used as a mud room and craft room) and the nook under the stairs (which was used for toy storage.) After considering the size and shape of each spot as well as how I wanted to have the mess contained and hidden, I settled on the space under the stairway.
2. Clear the new space of old stuff

We first had to empty the area of what was currently stored there. In this case, we had a toy shelf with bins, a small table with multiple containers of toys and games on and under it, and a bin of puzzles (and maybe a few dust bunnies!) Because my kids understood the end goal was to make a cool place for them to play with and store their Legos, they were on board with doing some purging and relocating. We went through every bin and separated into keep, trash, and donate piles. We also had to repeat this process in each kids' bedroom to make room for the items we kept from the nook under the stairs. We were able to get rid of enough that we could rearrange one bedroom to reuse the toy shelf. We also used this as an opportunity to purge some Lego accessories - mainly instructional booklets that were no longer needed. We recycled a huge pile, and the remainder fit nicely into a hanging file organizer that I mounted to the wall underneath the table allowing to use some otherwise wasted space!
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This was our recycle pile!
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We were able to reuse the toy shelf!

3. Plan to maximize the space

It was fun to plan out how this very small space could be filled with functional solutions. Drawing pictures is the most helpful way to map out your plan, and using grid paper makes it easier to draw to scale. Sometimes things you visualize in your head just won't work when you get out the measuring tape! Use resources like Pinterest to get inspiration and ideas. I created a whole board for Lego storage! Browse online for product ideas, but also go to a physical store so you can see and touch the materials you are considering. And don't forget to check your own house for items you can reuse or repurpose. If you are creating a space for someone else, be sure to include them in this process. They are the ones that will use it, so they may have ideas that may never have occurred to you. Don't forget to make use of vertical space and the space under tables and counters. The final product in our Lego cupboard under the stairs (a little Harry Potter humor!) was very close to my original sketches, but I had to be flexible in a few things like getting a smaller pegboard than planned because the large one wouldn’t fit in our vehicle!
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Custom shelf in process
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Pegboard getting a coat of paint

3. Buy, build and reuse

Shop around for the best deals, and don't shy away from building custom pieces. When you are at a physical store, don't get caught up in wanting to take home the supplies right then. Make sure to comparison shop online, and purchase what is both best for your space and is the best value. I took my kids to the hardware store to actually see and touch pegboard bins, and then we ordered cheaper ones online in the size and colors the kids preferred. Make sure to measure, measure, measure! Don’t assume your space is square or level (especially if you live in an old house like mine!)    Our project included a fairly simple table and shelf that my husband built and a pegboard we painted and cut to size (materials list at the end of the post.)  We got creative with covering up our imperfections with some adhesive Lego tape.   In addition to those supplies, the kids helped me pick out folding stools that fit nicely and could easily be stored under the table.  We also purchased some new rolling drawers, a hanging file holder for instructions, a floor mat for easy Lego clean up, adhesive battery operated LED lights.  Everything else was reused or repurposed!  Because the space was awkwardly shaped, there weren't studs in all the right places, so for some things, I used anchors and for others I used industrial strength velcro with an adhesive back.
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4. Relocate, decorate, and enjoy!

This is the fun part - moving into the new space! We slowly brought up Legos from the basement giving the kids time to sort and choose the best location in their new Lego room. I overheard them talking about how they were going to sort their Lego swords into some of the pegboard bins separating them into gold, silver, and other colored swords.  This MAY be an indication we have too many Legos, but what had taken up a huge area before now fit nicely in the little nook! We have space for displaying finished masterpieces on the shelves, a spot for unopened sets, lots of storage for the Legos themselves, an area for instruction books, and even have a plan for when the Lego playing gets so serious it needs to move to the floor! The mat I purchased cinches up into a bag so the mess can quickly and easily be picked up! We added some finishing touches that we reused from it previous Lego space - some wooden letters I painted in Lego blue, red, yellow and green that I adhered to the side of the shelf with Command strips and a poster frame filled with Lego wrapping paper. We also mounted a Lego mini figure display box that had been a Christmas gift on the wall above the pegboard.  Now the kids are enjoying their new Lego retreat.  It looks great, but yet it's hidden from view!

If you want to use any of our ideas, here's a supply list and some instructions:

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Supplies
  • 48"x 16" white laminate shelf board (purchased at Lowes for about $16.00)
  • 2"X 3" X 6' boards (purchased at Lowes for about $3.00 ea)
  • White paint (reused from a previous project)
  • Adhesive Lego tape (purchased at Walmart for about $13 for 8' or available on Amazon)
Instructions
  • Cut 2"x 3" board to length for two sides of the shelf board (example 1-48" piece and 1-16" piece
  • Mount board to the wall on studs at the appropriate height
  • Cut shelf board to length
  • Place shelf board on top of the 2" x 3" supports and screw shelf board to supports
  • Cut the remaining 2" x 3" board to the appropriate length to create a table leg
  • Paint table leg
  • Position table leg and screw shelf board to table leg and screw table leg to either floor or wall
  • If there are any uneven spaces between the wall and the shelf board, use adhesive Lego tape to cover.

Pegboard
Supplies
  • 2' x 4' sheet of pegboard (purchased at Lowes for approximately $10.00)
  • Blue paint (1 quart paint/primer tinted blue purchased at Lowes for approximately $7.00)
  • Mounting hardware
  • Pegboard bins (set of 16 purchase from Amazon for approximately $9.00)
Instructions
  • Measure and cut to fit your space
  • Paint (note that I first primed with white paint and then painted with blue.  I wish I would have just painted with blue because it was difficult to cover up the white!)
  • Hang with hardware keeping a small space between the pegboard and the wall to allow for hooks and bins to hang.
  • If you have uneven edges, consider some adhesive Lego tape to cover up!

Shelves
Supplies
  • 1" X 6" X 6' boards (purchased at Lowes for approximately $4.00 each)
  • White paint (left over from another project)
Instructions
  • Measure your space and cut boards to fit
  • Create a square and use screws to secure
  • Add a shelf/shelves as desired.
  • Paint
  • Cover screws with plastic screw cap covers (I stole some from a shoe shelf in my closet or they are available on Amazon)
  • Install in your space using brackets

Accessories
  • Three drawer cart with wheels (purchased at Walmart for approximately $13)
    • Holds one kid's legos and the Lego mat
  • Wooden bin (reused from previous toy storage)
    • Holds the other kid's legos
  • Hanging file organizer (purchased from Walmart for approximately $5.00)  
    • Holds all instruction booklets that they decided to keep
  • Lego play mat (purchased on Amazon for approximately $9.00)
    • Allows kids to play on the mat and when they're done, you just cinch it up into a bag and store in a drawer!
  • 18" folding stools (purchased from Amazon for approximately $12.00)
  • Poster frame filled with Lego wrapping paper (reused from previous Lego area)
    • Just for a fun decoration
  • Wooden craft letters to spell LEGO (reused from previous Lego area)
    • Hung with Command strips to the side of the shelf
  • Lego clock (resued from previous Lego area)
    • To keep kids from losing track of time while they are playing Legos!
  • Lego mini-figure display case (reusued from kids' room)
    • Hung on wall above the peboard using industrial strength adhesive velcro
  • Three battery operated, adhesive LED lights (purchased from Lowes for approximately $13 or available on Amazon)
    • Hung on the angled ceiling  - they are push button operated.
  • Lego creations for display (from my kids' imaginations)
    • These can be changed out as desired.  Each kid has a shelf and the top shelf is for unopened Lego sets.

I'm so happy with how this area turned out!  I love Legos and even wrote about how the process relates to getting your life in order in one of my first blog posts.  After this project, I am inspired to plan out more functional areas in other small spaces in my home and garage.  Next on the list - a sports equipment storage area in the garage!  

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